Took L. to regional choir practice today. It was hours of waiting around and it was sooo cold out. Got very hungry so I left to have dinner. Ate at the super market - I just hate eating out when I'm alone. Then I couldn't find the school when I tried to drive back... dark out. Sigh... Got back just in time to wait another hour.
But here is the sweet thing. L was so excited when he got out and so high energy when we got home. Papa had made some soup, and L sat down to eat a bowl with no complaints. (His father's soup... and no faces). Then he started talking about the last song they did at practice and he described the intensity of the piece and how all of the guys have started to keep the beat with their feet and how the tempo builds. He was really on a music adrenaline rush (he used the word adrenaline). I miss that feeling and I'm so happy for him that he has it: being in the very middle of tight harmonies and great singers. I always tell L that my fantasy is to be the worst singer in a choir and he's never agreed with me, but now maybe he gets it a little.
The good mood got him through cleaning the kitchen after dinner with me. It was a treat to be with him.
Then he hardly complained when he only got to watch about 15 minutes of an episode of "How I Met Your Mother" (He had started it already - so he watched the end).
Papa and I watched an Italian movie "Mid August Lunch," I think. There was something very charming about it and something a tad depressing - It was very Italian: sons who feel an incredible obligation to care for their mothers... It's dependence and take-chargeness (?) mixed in a strange way. Speaking of charming, H snored through about one third of it. ha ha
PS papa's soup? Not bad, but he always lets the veges get sooo mushy. But, he was very sweet about our getting home at 10 pm
I so don't like mushy veggies ... Tom and I once, in the beginning of our relationship, had a fight about mushy veggies ... silly I know, but I had to lay the ground rules of how to "correctly" prepare vegetables. lol. :P
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